Dowry: A Tradition of Harm
Dowry – gifts or wealth given to a groom’s family at marriage – is often disguised as a "blessing" for the bride. In reality, it’s a deeply harmful practice rooted in patriarchy, gender inequality, and outdated social norms. Despite being illegal in India since 1961, dowry remains widespread, devastating lives and communities.
Its effects are catastrophic:
Violence & Death: Families unable to meet dowry demands face harassment, abuse, and even murder. Over 7,000 dowry deaths are reported annually in India — often disguised as "kitchen accidents" or suicides.
Financial Ruin: Many families plunge into lifelong debt, spending savings or taking loans equivalent to years of income just to marry off a daughter.
Gender Discrimination: Dowry fuels son preference, leading to female foeticide, neglect of girls, and skewed sex ratios.
Psychological Trauma: Brides face constant pressure, humiliation, and the trauma of being treated as a "burden."
Why does it persist?
Deep-seated beliefs that women are "liabilities," greed masked as tradition, and weak law enforcement allow it to thrive. Even education and wealth haven’t erased it — in places like Kerala, "gold dowries" remain status symbols.
Change is possible:
Reject dowry demands — it’s illegal.
Support survivors using laws like IPC 498A.
Empower women through education & financial independence.
Challenge sexist norms that devalue daughters.
Dowry isn’t culture — it’s cruelty. Ending it starts with us.